3 Years In A Small Town And I Still Haven’t Found The Right Man!
I’m a single college-educated professional who’s spent several years in the big city dating. I’ve dated a lot of people, but not had any serious relationship until I found Big City Dating. I grew up in a tiny town and now live in an enormous metropolitan area. Dating in a big city is nearly a guarantee that you’ll run into like-minded people who will embarrass you on an initial date. Once I learned this lesson, I never worried about it again.
A few years ago, I was talking to my best friend in high school about how I should start dating since my friends were all too familiar with my situation. She said she had heard similar advice from others and that I should try it. I scoffed at her, thinking she was another one of those people who thought I could find happiness with anyone at anytime. However, when the bill came in, the very same girl read it and wrote it down to be polite.
Turns out her mom was one of those people who thought big city dating was the way to go. Her advice seemed sensible, but it still stumped me for quite some time. I really didn’t understand the concept of small towns and big cities, being the same thing. Maybe that’s because I lived in a small town where everyone knew each other. In a big city, there are bound to be people your age or above that are also members of the same circle of friends.
That brings me to the second part of my original question. Is it better to go to small towns where there are fewer people because in theory, there should be more single women and therefore bigger pool of potential candidates? Or is it better to use online dating apps because you can get access to hundreds, thousands, even millions of potential candidates. These online dating sites are not only good because they provide a huge amount of data on single women, they also provide an environment where you don’t have to dress up, go out and make personal visits, nor do you have to worry about making any personal mistakes.
When you go to a large city like Chicago, you see hundreds of big city dating sites. It’s hard to meet someone in one of those if you don’t know what to expect, how to act around them, and how to talk to them in person. But with a smaller town, you have one dating site where you can look through profiles and then narrow down your search according to location and personality.
Online dating sites also allow you to use a photo uploading system, which is the best feature of all. This will allow you to use a picture of yourself so you know what you’re getting, and not just some skinny guy in his 20s. The other nice feature of a smaller town dating site is that many women tend to want to talk to you personally. There are many men who tend to only respond to an email, or respond by some kind of “personal message” that doesn’t really say anything at all.
This is not the case in big cities. Big cities seem like they have a constant flow of people. People come and go, but you will meet someone new every day. It’s like small towns all the time because there is always someone new coming and going, so you will have more chances to meet someone new.
Also, when you are living in a big city, you will be surrounded by people who know each other. This gives you the opportunity to network and meet someone on a daily basis. You probably wouldn’t get that in small towns where everyone you know probably lives too far away for you to actually meet anyone. Now you know why so many people have trouble finding love in big cities. It’s because you just can’t get it in the small towns!